I received news the other day that upset me, and the result was a flurry of hectic activity trying to book a flight to London and hotel arrangements. My best friend for 40 years had died. A punch to the stomach. I had to go to the funeral.

With any death, there is shock. I used to speak to him two or three times a year. When I visited Europe, I spent as much time with him as I could. A great friend, father and a musician, too.

We live for years expecting our life will go the way we want. Each day will be as normal as the day before.

Hypnosis helps on a daily basis to see what we want to be. We have the ability to get there once we have properly programmed our subconscious. Remember that you are a success because you are where you programmed yourself to be.

We are where we are based on the thoughts and decisions we have made throughout our life. We alone are responsible. We have the ability to change who and what we are. To achieve this, you must know what you want to be and how to get there. You create your work plan, then follow it.

Life Began Blackly

My friend, from the north of England, came from an abusive home where his drunk father berated and beat him. When he no longer could take it, he moved to London, married a beautiful Malaysian girl, had a son and a daughter, and later became the grandfather of two girls.

He wanted to be a cab dispatcher, not a grand job but an important one.

He became an expert on London and how to navigate the giant metropolis. I spent one night at his desk with him, and it was amazing how deftly he handled the cab drivers, some of whom were new to England. He was fair in distributing the business. In other words, he attained the success that he wanted. He won what he wanted, and he enjoyed a great life. Never unhappy. Always positive.  Aware of what he was doing, what he wanted to do, and how.

We can learn from his attitude. He made no excuses for his actions, apologizing when wrong, standing up for what was right. That is all we can hope for.

Many of us may not be rich, good looking,  lucky, successful.

However, we are gifted with the ability to be what we want. As long as we focus on that, subconscious programming will take you to where you want to be. Once you have started on the hypnotic path to your success, happiness and prosperity, you will want to be prepared to act on any of the new and different ideas your subconscious will give you.

Good luck for a wonderful life full of friends, family and others. Live to the fullest because, like my friend, you never know.

If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact me by telephone, 310.204.3321, or by email at nickpollak@hypnotherapy4you.net.  See my website at www.hypnotherapy4you.net